I really learned the meaning of that phrase when I met Dwight*(can you tell I'm watching the office?). I met Dwight and had a fabulous first date. It lasted 7 hours and I didn't stop laughing or smiling the entire time. Plus before the date ended we had already planned our next date for 2 days later.
I should have known it was too good to be true. First mistake, I had forgotten my phone at home that day. He was supposed to pick me up from work so I wrote him an email saying to call me at work and gave him my work number. I got ready at work and patiently sat. I knew he had read the email. I waited and waited.
Finally, when he was a solid 30 minutes late I find the email with his phone number and call him. Turns out he is stuck at work late, and he had left me a voicemail on my cellphone. He said he should be out of work by like 7 or 8, so we would meet up then. I go home a little upset but still excited. I go home and then continue to wait there. It is almost 9 so I call him again, he was just leaving now. Great, thanks for the heads up. He would call me when he was close to the city and pick a place to meet.
Tick tock tick tock.
Before I know it, it is 11pm. I call him and leave him a voicemail saying basically don't bother I'm going to bed. Afterall, I had a flight to catch at 6am the next day. Nice.
I get a message the next day saying he had gone home, sat down, and fell asleep. Lovely. I give him the benefit of the doubt, afterall I should have just rescheduled when he knew he had to work late the FIRST time.
I get back from vacation and we go on a second date. It again, was great, and this time we had our first kiss. Of course I am all sorts of giddy.
We make plans for a few days later. He bails due to some reason that escapes me now. Reschedule for a week later. He was going out of town but knew he would be back by our next date. The day of the date rolls around and I hadn't heard from him for a while.
I text him asking what the deal for that night was, and he then informs me he was still away on business and would be flying back in a few hours. He would call me when he got in to hang out. I said fine, I'm going to dinner with friends (lie) and we can meet up when you get back.
That was the last I ever heard from him. I obviously gave him way too many chances, but it was only because I really thought it could be something.
As I said in the beginning of this story- now I really understand this saying.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
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 Dating Catastrophes is about those of us that have been unlucky in love but can still find the humor in it. Living in the city of Philadelphia, which has made lists for being one of the fattest and ugliest cities in America, doesn't make dating any easier. Oh, did I mention that the girl/guy single ratio is way off? After experiencing dating woes for a number of years, I finally decided to write it out and share – so the rest of the world can laugh along with my bad dates.
Dating Catastrophes is about those of us that have been unlucky in love but can still find the humor in it. Living in the city of Philadelphia, which has made lists for being one of the fattest and ugliest cities in America, doesn't make dating any easier. Oh, did I mention that the girl/guy single ratio is way off? After experiencing dating woes for a number of years, I finally decided to write it out and share – so the rest of the world can laugh along with my bad dates.
 
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