Now is that sooooooo hard?!

Oh lately life has been busy with another group of total jerks. I have been pretty busy when not dealing with jerks, so sorry for the lack of updates.
One thing is really annoying the shit out of me tonight though.

I was ballsy enough to ask a guy out. Now, not just some random dude. A guy I know but i havent seen him for some time. I was like ooooo single?! He was always so cute. I asked him to hang out this week to catch up (makeout).

Now, guy could do a few things.

I would like for him to say yes, but if he does not want to hang out, ok fine.

I send the message. A few days later still nothing. I do some lurking. I know they have seen my message by this point.

Now boy, here is what you should have said. Hell, I'll even give you a few options.
1. Oh man, that would be great, but I'm busy that day. Maybe another time!
2. I'm out of town this week, maybe when I get back.
3. That day is no good, how about (enter day)

ok really the list can go on and on. Even if you use #1 or 2 I get the hint that you don't really want to hang out. I'd be all like "oh ok! let me know!" when I really know, you have no intentions of hanging out with me. That is FINE, I'd rather have that kinda hint then just blatenly ingoring me, asshole.